Generally, it is only a phrase which refers to major public health issues. They are major health concerns that affect communities both from a medical and economic stand point. So how can we define a personal health crisis? Is there such a thing?
According to the World Health Organization: “Health is a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity.” https://www.who.int/suggestions/faq/en/
Dictionary.com defines crisis as: “a stage in a sequence of events at which the trend of all future events, especially for better or for worse, is determined;turning point.” https://www.dictionary.com/browse/crisis
With these definitions I am pretty sure that each one of us can have a Health Crisis at any point in our lives!
Finding out your blood pressure is through the roof or you have diabetes. What about cancer, blindness, paralysis, severe depression. Only you know if your situation is a crisis!
My “Health Crisis” was the day I had my hysterectomy. Before that moment I was falling; after, I decided to climb. Do you have the courage to reverse the fall before you hit the bottom? I did not!!!
I admit my eating habits were far from great and my physical activity relatively low but not in a way that could, on its own, result in 300 pounds. I turned to MDs saying begging for help. After several tests they were banging their heads against the wall as was I. One gynecologist said “this is not going to result in anything but, it’s the last guess I have.” I had a biopsy, the next day pre-op labs and the following day was on the table. Before surgery the surgeon and I sat facing each other one last time. He said, after we remove your uterus and cervix we will be able to take a closer look at the tissue and know for sure if it is cancer or not. If it is cancer we will remove your ovaries as standard. However, if it is not positive do you want me to remove the ovaries or leave them. Because I was in severe pain for 10+ years and I did not want to risk future problems I said, “take them out no matter what!”. For me that was the ONLY option. I was desperate for the pain to stop and I knew if they remained the pain would continue.
That morning I was 34, with a 56 inch waist, unable to sleep, taking 7 prescriptions, in excruciating pain all the time and suffering from severe depression. 4 hours later the situation remained, but my mindset changed. Finally, a doctor listened to my cries. I decided to continue the hunt for solutions, questioning MDs until they provided an answer! One at a time, solutions were discovered over a span of several years. Now I’m 42, with a 26 inch waist, taking only 1 prescription on top of my HRT, no longer suffering from constant pain and my depression is under control. One day, one moment in time, changed my view of what was possible and that saved my life!
Really look around you and see who is there. When I started my journey, I was essentially alone in my desire to feel better and my goal was to be able to buy clothes from a regular store. That was my ultimate vision! Now I am in a completely different place with a new, fresh, more powerful mind set. I was speaking to a woman at the gym a few weeks ago that was about the size I was back in 2010. She was just getting started with her healing process. She asked a question that triggered an in-depth conversation about our past struggles and she was shocked when I told her I used to be 300 pounds. She asked, “How did you do it”? My answer is always the same, “hard work, patience with myself, and personal support”. There are many pillars involved with success but the topic here is personal support.
There are varying degrees and styles of support. Your personal needs will change as you progress and as the vision of yourself and your path adjust to the moment. I went through 3 major support levels. At the beginning of my exploration I was on my own! The I was surrounded by those that provided as much emotional support as anyone could ever ask for but simultaneously, surrounded me with fresh baked goods and comfort food. My current level of support is as good as it gets! My partner makes sure I have everything I need to succeed. He understands fitness and the dedication it takes!
When I was starting this path alone my goal consisted of being able to buy clothes from a regular store. At the time it seemed like a big deal and when I managed to reach that check point I stagnated. Alone I was not able to see the potential I had. If you do not envision your future then how can you reach it. This is one of the reasons you need people that know and care about you. If you stand at the base of mount hood how far will you climb if you are on your own? If someone knows where you are but is unable to be by your side, you will push harder and feel safer. But think for just a moment, what if you have someone that not only holds your hand but carries the climbing ropes and the ability to catch you if you fall and lift you when you’re struggling.
Alone I was able to do the baby steps but since I couldn’t even see the possibility of reaching the peak I didn’t set goals that would get me there. Once I was surrounded by those that deeply care about my wellbeing my steps grew but I was carrying all of my own equipment and slipping on the ice. Sometimes I slid miles backwards, went home, took a break and when I was ready to try again I went back to mountain and started climbing the same part of the path that I had already conquered. Regaining one’s health is not always direct and the struggles are what make us strong enough to go further.
Now, the goals I am setting are much bigger than I ever imagined they could be when this whole process began but it took someone to push me to see what was possible. It isn’t just any push though, it took someone who knows fitness, knows his own value and could see what I could become before I could see it myself. It took positive feedback from someone I value and respect. Now I am setting goals concerning the amount of weight I can lift and how fast I can run. I am not standing on the top of the mountain yet but I can feel it. I’m breathing in possibility and exhaling doubt.
What each of us needs is different. There is no prescription, which is why I push searching within yourself. Figure out what you need to succeed and reach out.
Anyone can prescribe something for weight loss, muscle toning/building, or cardio improvement. If are already in the process of regaining your health this type of information can be helpful. However, if you are like most people sitting on your couch thinking, I’m going to lose 10 or even 100 pounds and are searching for a starting point or an easy, quick fix then take a moment and search your soul before searching Google. There are endless reasons that you got to this point. Figure out what those are first. So often we see weight gain summed up to poor diet + lack of exercise. Well, guess what folks, it is a lot more complicated than that!!!!
Questions to ask yourself:
1) Am I experiencing, or have I experienced too much stress?
a. If you live in the US, work full time and support yourself and family, chances are the answer is YES.
b. Are you always busy taking care of others or do you take time for yourself?
2) Is there a medical underlying cause?
a. A few examples from my personal experience include hormone imbalance, ovarian polycystic syndrome, sleep apnea, adrenal failure and low thyroid. Also, a huge part of my health decline was caused by overprescribing MDs.
b. If you believe that something is seriously wrong have you accepted the information provided as gospel or are you asking questions and fighting for yourself?
3) Is my life stable?
a. Is your housing situation comfortable?
b. Are you in an unhealthy relationship?
c. Is your job secure?
d. Is your family healthy?
e. Are you concerned about basic financial needs?
4) Do I have support?
a. Are the people that surround you going to push you to make unhealthy decisions?
b. Are you surrounded by people that say things like; “I support you” “I believe in you” “Go for it” buuuuuuuuut…..in action, they are being less than supportive?
c. Lastly, are the people that you rely on for emotional/mental support providing only negative feedback or do they provide encouragement.